Frugal Friday 574

 Happy Frugal Friday!

Here's how we saved money/spent money wisely/made extra money this week:

- Friday to Sunday my parents kept the kids and Oscar for us. They went to the Strawberry Festival, played MANY games, spent Saturday in Nashville (IN), and sooooo much more! My parents have had an incredibly busy spring caring for my Momaw and I am so thankful that they were kind enough to set aside this weekend to help us. The kids loved having them here!

- While they stayed home, Mark and I went to Cincinnati to celebrate our 16th wedding anniversary. For Mark's birthday in March, I gifted him a hotel stay and tickets to the Reds/Cubs game. We found lots of free fun (I detailed it on my business Facebook page) and had fun on budget! Free stops included 21c hotel museum, William Howard Taft Presidential Site, Fountain Square, Findlay Market, Taft Museum of Art, and the riverfront. We parked our car on Friday and left it in the garage until Sunday. We walked over 10 miles exploring the city! We had a great time away, reconnecting. 

At the Cubs/Reds Game.

It was my first MLB game and I was excited to cheer for the Cubs.

My Grandma Chico was a huge, lifelong Cubs fan so it was really special

for me to see them play in person. 

- Sunday before coming home from Cincy, we stopped at Jungle Jim's. We found many Anna-Safe items and an incredible sale on crab cakes! We also bought lots of little treats for the kids.

- Monday we made a huge lunch for Memorial Day. Mark smoked ham and chicken. Mama and I made squash casserole, macaroni and cheese, green beans, and mashed potatoes and gravy. Annabeth made strawberry shortcake and a cookie cake. It was excellent! We ate it for leftovers for three meals.

- My sister came up for the day and while she was here she gifted Owen his birthday gift from her. She gave him a grocery store shopping spree. Together they went to Meijer and he chose: ice cream, fizzy waters, Mexican sodas, chocolate milk, Doritos, sushi, and watermelon. I think this is the third time she's given him this gift and he LOVES shopping with her for items of his own choosing. 

With Aunt Lu and his haul.

She also let him choose some Hot Wheels and toy cars. 

I am so thankful for the aunt and friend she is to my kids!

- After lunch and birthday excitement, us ladies all went to Goodwill to thrift. Each of the adults found a couple of items and Annabeth found five items. Thanks to a 10% off deal + a gift card, Mama spent under $50 for everything. One of Annabeth's sweatshirt was new with tags for $65 so we definitely came out WAY ahead of retail pricing! Thank you Mama for the fun outing!

- My sister brought some clothes to trade after cleaning out her closet. Annabeth and I each kept a few pieces and we will pass on the rest. Her clean out motivated me to do my own!

- Tuesday evening was Owen's last Cub Scout Pinewood Derby. I cannot believe that by next spring he will be in Scouts! Owen and Mark worked on his car for days and days. In the end, he was very proud of his design and placed 2nd Overall!

2nd place winner

Gold and Green design.

I especially liked the gold weights under the window!

- Mark cleaned out the garage some this week. We listed many items for sale. So far he has passed on one large item and sold another. The item he sold was a large set of cot bunk-beds. We bought them used several years ago but have only ever used while "camping out" in the living room. Neither kid ever wants to be on the top bunk and we end up just putting them side by side. We have plenty of cots to serve that purpose so these were just sitting in storage. We sold them for more than we paid for them so that was a win! 

- After being inspired by my sister, I cleaned out my closet and only found three items that I didn't immediately like. Here in Central Indiana, we're mid-seasons and wearing everything from shorts to sweats on a daily basis so I found it a tough time to clear out. I plan to do it again at the end of summer and to part ways with anything I don't wear this summer. Of the three items, one was donated and two went to Annabeth's closet. Both were sentimental items I haven't worn in 10+ years but now will fit her. One was a lace top I thrifted in San Fransisco and the other was a sundress I bought in Florida on our honeymoon. Neither have fit in ages but I am very attached to the memory of buying both and felt joy when I saw them in my closet. Now, I think I'll find even more joy seeing her wear them.

We're looking forward to a busy weekend with family, friends, and the biggest birthday surprise we've ever planned for one of the kids!

Happy Savings to All! meije

Frugal Friday 573

 Happy Frugal Friday!

Here's how we saved money/spent money wisely/made extra money this week:

- Friday night we had stir-fry dinner and movie night. We made chicken sti-fry, egg rolls, and watched many episodes of Gilmore Girls. It was much more affordable than eating out and still felt special.

- Saturday afternoon we enjoyed a swim birthday party for one of Owen's favorite friends. The pool was kind enough to give swim passes to guests beyond just the party time and so the kids were able to swim the whole afternoon. Thank you to my sweet friend Lauren who sent home the extra Anna-Safe treats she had purchased for the party. I am forever thankful for friends who have safe foods for Annabeth. 

- Sunday after church we went to my nephew's baseball game. After the game, we went to Mark's mom's house for dinner and belated Mother's Day. I am so thankful for the gift of cousins for my kids - they truly love spending time with all of their cousins.

- Mark's mom did a grocery delivery order. When it came, it had bottled water that she doesn't care for. They refunded her for those and sent the correct ones. She kindly gave us the three cases!! We plan to take them on a trips later this summer. 

- Somehow over the course of our booster seat years, we ended up with five seats across our vehicles and the grandparents' vehicles. I've passed two along to a friend and last weekend I passed along the remaining three to a friend who is a social worker in the city. She will be able to use these to drive some of her clients. We were glad to have the room in the garage and to have them go where they will be used.

- Monday our friend Kelley and her girls had us over. With her church ladies group, she had started some diamond dot suncatchers that will be given to a local nursing home. We were able to complete nearly all of the rest of them as we visited. Annabeth particularly enjoyed this activity. Kelley is a great encouragement to me in always finding ways to bless others. 

- Tuesday we dropped a science text book off to a friend. We finished it this spring and she mentioned looking for something different for her daughter for next year. I was happy to pass it along! 

- The kids had studio dance pictures this week. As always, we did not buy any pictures. With our dance fees the kids do already get pictures from competitions do we don't spend double buying the studio ones too. Saved: TONS of money

- My debit card is set to expire next month. The new one arrived, I activated it, but chose not to save it to any of my devices. This stopped me from impulse spending this week. Saved: $25

- Last night my parents treated all of us to dinner at Bucca di Beppo for our anniversary. Mark's mom also let us know that she will keep the kids for us for a whole day so we can have a day date sometime! Thank you all! 

Frugal Fails:

- Somehow, even though we double check everything, Annabeth and I left her jazz shoes at her last competition venue. We didn't notice there or while processing the bags at home but we did notice when it came time for pictures this week. We searched the cars and house and didn't find them. So, she borrowed some for pictures and I ordered a new pair. This was especially painful as she had worn them literally four times and they would have worked for the next few years :( 

- Based on previous years' Nationals schedules and the kids' routines this year, I had guessed we would only be away four nights this summer. We've paid a ton for condos the past two years in Pigeon Forge so I decided to book a hotel room to save BIG. A tentative schedule has come out and it shows the kids will dance every day of the competition meaning we will be there seven nights. At the hotel, this would be an additional $500+ As it was a basic hotel room with mini fridge and no other ammeneties, I decided to check VRBO and AirBnB to see if anything was left for about the same price. In the end, I found a condo for a little less than the extended hotel stay. I am excited this means we will be able to cook with a full kitchen vs eating quick food in a hotel room or being very tempted to eat out. While we don't love spending the additional money in rentals and also three more days of paying a dog sitter, I was relieved to find a rental around the same price as the hotel. 

Celebrating 19 years since we met this weekend

AND 16 years since our wedding day today.

Happy Sweet Sixteen My Love. 

Happy Savings to All!

Frugal Friday 572

 Happy Frugal Friday!

Here's how we saved money/spent money wisely/made extra money this week:

- Last week, when we realized our new furnace/ac unit didn't use the same filters as our old one, I put our extras on Facebook for free. Within just a few minutes a friend claimed them and picked them up from our house the next day. Part of our decluttering journey has been the fun of giving away SO many items for free! 

- Mark spent a day giving speeches at one of the schools. They gave him a little gift basket as a thank you. He brought home a nice pen, coupon for a free McDonald's meal, candy, and a giftcard to Main & Madison which he kindly gave to me! 

- Saturday the kids had most of their group dances at a competition in Zionsville. The boys drove up separately to tick Boone County off our list. I left them to their own devices and instead of choosing some free fun they went to Greek's Pizza. They did compare it to our local one and said it's way better. They brought us girls leftovers and thus none of us ate the lunch I had packed. Saturday night we packed away the cooler food into the fridge and saved it for our Sunday lunch. 

- Sunday was Mother's Day. Both of our moms were out of state visiting family so we had the day with just the four of us. Owen had dance so he and I were in Zionsville from 9-3. Mark and Annabeth mowed the lawn, made a homemade cookie cake, and smoked chicken + Mac-and-cheese for dinner. On the way home from the competition, Owen and I popped into a "fancy" northside Goodwill. We were a little disappointed to not find nicer items then we find on our side of town but I did find a nice sweatshirt for Annabeth and a pair of pants for me. I had a giftcard so it was $0 OOP.

For Mother's Day they got me cute little items from one of my favorite local boutiques.

They knew I would appreciate that they shopped small, local, and woman owned! :) 

Annabeth chose this fun hairbow for me. 

It was such a great gift as it's something I would look at in the store

but never splurge on. 

Also, I love the dance costumes - always momming haha

- We had lots of free fun this week - visiting parks, going to the library, house projects put off during the school year, and lots and lots of board games!

- Wednesday morning Owen had a haircut downtown. We stopped in Main & Madison afterwards and I grabbed a salad for me and a drink for him. Thank you to Mark's mom for the gift card. $0 OOP

- Our neighbor planted her totatoes and had two extra plants. She kindly gifted them to us for our patio. Saved: $5

- Last night was our mom's planning meeting for next year for our co-op. The returning members hosted a pitch-in to welcome the new moms. The sign-up came out the week we were hosting Annabeth's Confirmation luncheon. I signed up for plates, napkins, and utencils. I brought items that we already had on hand (leftover from her party) so $0 OOP! 

This week we started Summer School. People often ask what our summers look like so I'll share here. The first week after school lets out I try to have zero requirements of the kids. They get long lazy days of reading, crafting, playing outside, TV, etc. Then, Week Two-End of Summer we have at least 30 minutes of reading a day and a math lesson a day. The reading has looked different over the years with everything from piles of picture books, to read aloud, to their own chapter books, and even audio books. The point is -we read! As for math, I've always mixed it up too. Addition races, games, out loud questions, multiplication races, and now they are each doing a lesson of next year's math. The average school child can lose two years of skills over the summer (they call it the Summer Slide) and it makes life SO much easier at back to school time if there hasn't been a big break in learning. We do these skills every day that we are home all day. If we're out on an adventure, at VBS, have company, etc we do not do Summer School. 

I hope that's helpful for anyone looking to continue summer learning with your kids!

Happy Savings to All! 

Frugal Friday 571

 Happy Frugal Friday!

Here's how we saved money/spent money wisely/made extra money this week:

- I took each of the kids on a little coffee date over the past few weeks. My best friend had given me a gift card and this was a fun way to use it! $0 OOP.

- Mark and I got ice cream one evening. I used a free Blizzard from the Dairy Queen App to make for a very cheap date. 

- We don't shop at Meijer super often but they do have some items we cannot find anywhere else. I made sure to use our "Free Item" coupons that came in the mail this month. We got a free peanut butter and free yogurt. Saved: $4.28

- Sunday the kids had a dance competition in downtown Indy. Our arrival time was 6 AM and we didn't leave until 8 PM. We packed along lunch and snacks. The boys went home midday for a break to let Oscar out. Although it cost them gas and time, it was more affordable than hiring a dog walker to come in for him. I did splurge on the way home and we ordered pick up pizza. After 14 hours of dance, I was in no mood to cook. I did use $2 Papa John's bucks and a 20% off coupon.

One year, Annabeth and I had seen another studio with the cutest, studded

studio jackets. We've talked about them on and off ever since. Annabeth thrifted

this black jean jacket last fall and a few weeks ago my dad got her the STYLE patches

for her to make her own. It turned out SO cute and earned her lots of compliments. 

- Monday, after two weeks without heat or ac, we had our new unit installed. I am very, very thankful that this happened in April/May when it didn't make any difference to not have anything running. We've had beautiful weather and typically don't run heat or air for most of April-early June anyway. We were excited that the new unit came in about $400 less than we thought. Even so, this was a major expense so are busy looking at our monthly budget to figure out how to trim it down to rebuild savings. Expect a LOT of free, frugal fun to appear here over the summer. 

- At my Wednesday night job, they often have excess food, supplies, etc that are donated. Once the group members go through, the volunteers can choose from what is left. This week's donation included some new-with-tag clothing basics donated from Maurice's. I chose 8 items for Annabeth and myself. We replaced worn out items in our dressers for free! 

- I ordered an item from Amazon that didn't come in exactly how I wanted. When I went to return it, Amazon told me that they would give me a full refund in the form of Amazon gift card and that there was no need to return the item. I will give the item as a gift in the future. I will also save the gift card amount until fall birthdays or maybe even Christmas as I don't shop online often at all. 

- Mark was sick all last week, I came down with it last Friday, and Owen started feeling poorly Monday. As a result, we've laid low the past two weeks trying to recover as quickly as possible. The worst part has been a persistent, dry, hacking cough. We hope to be fully through it soon.

Wednesday evening, I came home to our neighbor mowing our front yard. I was so surprised as he's a new neighbor, and we don't speak often. When I got out of the car to thank him, he just said he knew it had been rainy and maybe we needed that little bit of help getting ahead of Thursday's rain. It was such a simple, but deeply meaningful, act of kindness for us. It felt so wonderful to be seen and helped. It was a living reminder to us to always seek opportunities to be the hand and feet of Jesus. 

We are looking forward to another dance weekend! Good luck to our SDA Family at our last regional of the season!

Happy Savings to All! 

Frugal Friday 570

 Happy Frugal Friday!

Here's how we saved money/spent money wisely/made extra money this week:

- Last Friday we spent the day in Elkhart with our friends the Evans family. We enjoyed time at their house and had a snack lunch. Spent $0 for many hours of fun!

- The kids and I rounded out a 9 county tour of Northern Indiana. I found a good hotel deal for under $100/night at a very safe, clean place. Especially traveling alone with the kids I did not want to risk an unfamiliar area so I stayed right where I knew how to get places and with a chain I was comfortable with. We spent $45 on gas as we drove many miles and $30 on stops. We supported a small family owned bakery and local candy shop with that $30.

- Friday night through Sunday the boys had Spring Camp with the Scouts. They camped at Lakeview for the first time in a while and I know Mark really enjoyed sharing that special place with Owen. Together they caught around 80 fish which was the highlight of all of the stories from campt this week.

One of the MANY fish they caught.

- While the boys were gone, Annabeth and I enjoyed a Girls' Weekend. She had really looked forward to this and asked for pasta dinner and lots of Gilmore Girls. Saturday we spent lunch with co-op friends and it was the sweetest, sunniest afternoon with dear friends. The highlight for me was as the girls waited in line for their lunch a worship song came up on the playlist and together we all sang. It was sweet.

- Sunday after church we went to my nephew's baseball game. It's his first year playing and we loved cheering him on. He's been great about sitting through Owen's games over the years and we were excited to cheer for him now!

- Mark worked many overtime hours. We find that just as school kids get Spring Fever - so do grown-ups! He always has some strange cases this time of year. 

- In early April, I placed an order for a a nephew's birthday gift with 3+ weeks for delivery. It's been stuck in Ohio since April 11 with UPS saying they've handed it off to USPS and USPS saying they never got it. I asked the seller to either refund or send again once we were 10 days passed the delivery date. They haven't been good about responding to my messages so I finally filed a claim with my bank for failure to receive. They have refunded me the money. I doubt the original item will ever appear and at least now I have my money back. 

- In looking through my e-mails about that order, I realized I never got a confirmation for another item. I had seen a sunscreen shared over and over again by influencers and one had a great code for it. I went through her link, used the code, and had the money come out of my account before Easter. When I realized it never arrived, I went through to look for tracking. Then I discovered I never even got an e-mail. I wrote the company to see if they could resend it, or at least give me an Order/tracking number. I was a little worried I had ordered through a shell company instead of the real one as I've had that happen with Instagram before. This was not the case though! I had an answer, with order number and tracking, within 12 hours. I cannot wait for it to arrive!

- Annabeth took an online high school math class this year. It was $10.97/month. I realized mid-April that she would only have a couple of lessons after the April payment so we stacked her final unit on fewer days to save the final $10.97 payment. I spent quite a bit on next year so every little bit we can save on school this year will help! 

- Yesterday was our last co-op event of the year - Field Day! We played kickball, did stations, and enjoyed a gorgeous spring morning together. I am very thankful for this group of friends to do life with. 

- Yesterday was our last day of school! Annabeth completed 8th, and some of 9th grade, this year and Owen completed 4th grade. I am forever thankful to be a homeschool family! Our tradition is to eat out on the last night of school, our kids are townies so they chose The Willard. We had a great dinner out and used a $5 off coupon on our meal. We had a movie and living room camp-out to complete the festivities. I love that even though they are "big kids" they still want to celebrate this way. 

We are looking forward to a busy and fun two months of summer! We use May and June to wrap up dance, visit family, celebrate some special events, and to work on 4H projects. I find it hard to believe that when we head back to school in July that I'll be teaching my last year of grade school and my first year of high school! 

Happy Savings to All!