Friday, October 10, 2025

Annabeth is 14!

 Last weekend, in addition to celebrating Mark's homecoming, we also had some BIG events for Annabeth. Saturday night was her first high school dance and Sunday was her 14th Birthday!

Homecoming Ready
Mr. Oscar Chase was also all smiles 

Annabeth's shoes are from Amazon (she purchased with a giftcard)
Her dress is from At Home with Heartland (a local Boutique) 
Retro looking hairclips were a $6 (for 5!) find at Marshalls

Before the dance, we met her friend "A" for dinner at Fazoli's. Both girls manage food allergies and the families felt safer if the girls ate safe food before the dance and did not consume anything while at the dance. We were worried about cross contamination, lack of food labels, or improperly labeled foods. We had a fun dinner and it eased all of our worries.

Annabeth loved the dance and is already planning next year's dress and overall look. This year she was channeling "Alice" from Twilight. 

Sunday was her 14th birthday. She was up at 6:30, even after a late dance night, ready for presents before church. With zero toys on her list we went for teenage and practical - a CD, new pajamas, snacks, and her big gift was a new suitcase set. I realized on our Arizona Trip that she is maybe too old to still have an American Girl Suitcase and she agreed. Mark found a fun pink one that will be easy to spot on planes and busses. We passed her AG suitcase along to a sweet little friend of Owen's later in the week.  

We went to early church, met up with a friend who gave her the sweetest gift, and then had lunch out at Jockamo's. Her friend Maggie made some handmade items, gave some snacks, and then also gifted her a little New Testament which she had marked with her favorite passages and verses. We all thought this was such a unique, beautiful gift idea!

We always allow the kids one eat out meal and one paid for activity for their birthday. She said the dance could count as her paid for activity as we paid for tickets. For the afternoon we watched Wicked and then headed out to youth group. Since it was her birthday, we took dinner so she could have just what she wanted. We made BBQ meatballs, BBQ weenies, chips and queso, veggies, and she made an adorable Taylor Swift friendship bracelet themed birthday cake. 

I really felt like a "big kid" mom as I didn't have to 
help at all with her cake. She LOVES baking and was more
than happy to do it all by herself.

Annabeth also led the lesson, music, and games for youth night. She chose a lesson based on her dance solo song for the year "Flowers"  She did such a wonderful job fostering thoughtful conversation based on this song. She chose it about six months ago as her solo and has been excited to share it with everyone she can. It's so true - in the valleys of life God plants the seeds that become the flowers.

Leading  Youth Group

I could not be more proud of our Miracle Girl for using every moment of her life to share God's goodness and grace. I have shared many times that while I waited for the call from NICU to know if she had survived or not, I bargained with God. I pleaded with Him and said "If you just save her - we'll give her to You for life!" He did and so we have. To see her live for Him is the greatest gift! There is nothing she could do that could be more amazing, more powerful, or more meaningful than to do the work that lasts - the work of testifying to His good grace and saving power. 

Happy #14 to our girl! 







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